To put it bluntly Malcom X believes in being fair whereas Martin Luther King Jnr believes in forgiveness. Forgiveness is often the harder thing to follow. I agree with Malcom X probably because freedom is essential to me and so is being fair. If someone doesn't want to associate with me why should I bother with them? If someone doesn't treat me right why should I treat them right? I do believe that you should be courteous, peaceful, obey the law, respect everyone but if they are rude and don't respect you, ignore them.
I don't believe in violence and would never turn to it to solve my problems.